Last spring, my sister and I sat at the kitchen table staring at a mountain of paperwork and a growing fear: What happens if mom needs a nursing home?
“She’ll have to sell the house,” my sister said. “Drain her savings, maybe even give up her car.”
She was convinced Medicaid wouldn’t help unless our mom gave up everything she had worked her whole life for.
And honestly? That’s what a lot of people believe.
But here’s the thing: it’s not true.
💡 Medicaid Isn’t About Taking Everything Away — It’s About Protecting What Matters
In Pennsylvania, Medicaid does have income and asset limits. But there are built-in protections for people who plan ahead. For example:
- Your home can often be protected
- One car is exempt
- There are legal tools—like trusts—that allow families to qualify without losing everything
These are the facts no one told us.
🧾 Here Are 3 Common Medicaid Myths — And the Truth Behind Them
- MYTH: “If I give my kids money now, I’ll be fine.”
- TRUTH: Medicaid has a 5-year lookback period—any gifts or transfers can result in penalties.
- MYTH: “Only poor people qualify.”
- TRUTH: Many middle-class families qualify for Medicaid with proper planning. This includes people with pensions, homes, or retirement accounts.
- MYTH: “Once I qualify, I have no control over my care.”
- TRUTH: Medicaid recipients can still choose certain facilities and maintain autonomy—with the right documents in place.
🎯 The Takeaway: Planning = Peace
By the end of that week, we talked to an elder law attorney.
We found out our mom could qualify—and keep her home.
We got the documents in order and created a plan that brought us all peace of mind.
💬 Real Talk
If you’ve been putting this off because it seems confusing or scary—you’re not alone.
But knowledge is power. Planning is love. And Medicaid might be more within reach than you think.